In every relationship, there are things your man does that drive you mad. It could be small things, like annoying habits (i.e. driving too fast, being kind of a slob, not calling enough) to big things (communication problems, fear of commitment...). The truth is, for most women, we are more than willing to discuss these things in an effort to make the man and relationship, well, better. Unfortunately, men are not always so open to change. Constantly asking your man to change his habits will be interpreted as nagging and could really put a strain on your relationship.
The question is, where do you draw the line? Of course, there are definitely times when it is better to bite your tongue and deal, but sometimes unless you bring up your concerns, the relationship will slowly deteriorate.
When you recognize something you'd like your man to change, when should you point out the elephant in the room and when should you learn to quietly accept it?
1 comment:
This seems to be a consistent problem you are facing in your relationship with the new boy, I'm not sure if you are referring to him or guys in general, but I think you have to be who are and not be so fearful of telling him how you feel, unless you end up bringing up the same issues that bother then you have to accept them or move on from each other. Easier said than done!
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